desperately seeking NOT married

Boys are stupid. I swear the penis gene makes you an idiot.

Why is it a woman can’t be friendly to a man without the assumption of interest? I am a friendly person. I am outgoing and generous. But why do they assume because I’m nice and extend a hand of friendship that means I want to pursue a sexual relationship?!

Why is it I can’t get a date with an available man I’m interested in?  But if you have a wife at home then I’m hot shit? Grass is always greener. Enjoy the grass in your own damn pasture instead of looking to jump the fence.

I am not going to post a marriage proposal for any random nutter here or on Craigslist. I’m not going to send you nudie shots and if you send them to me, be assured, I won’t speak to you again.

Where the hell can a nice normal girl find a normal, slightly sarcastic guy?  I’d prefer to meet one in the wild, in their natural habitat and not on some stupid website.  I really think I look funny in pictures.  And as picky as I am, I feel the judgement bounce right back to me.  I do much better in person.

Now, if only I could run into the cute guy I smiled with in the elevator again…

Published by Lula Harp

I'm a mad scientist trying to find my tools.

12 thoughts on “desperately seeking NOT married

  1. Sorry, all of the nice guys I know are too wishy-washy for you (or are unemployed)! I’m not sure of what your “type” is (physical, I can imagine the personality part). I do know one guy who has the personality, but not sure if he is still available.

    I don’t know how to find a partner. I did it all the wrong way, picked the wrong guy in some folks’ opinions, stuck through all of the really yucky times when I should have left, and it has all worked out in the end. Go figure.


    1. thanks for stopping by. I appreciate that others are thinking about these things. I have no problem being friends with a married guy, I just don’t want to date one.


  2. So true, so true! When I came to Spain for 3 months- 8 years ago – to the middle of nowhere to learn Spanish, some of my friends said “you won´t even make friends, let alone meet a guy” (a relationship wasn´t even on my agenda then) and then the unexpected happened. Honestly, you live and work in central London and most of Europe´s capital cities and then you meet a totally normal and lovely guy in the back of beyond 😉


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